there's nothing wrong if you take easy sa lahat ng bagay sa buhay sa goals and ambitions. i was too serious before in everything in life in my goals in ambition minamadali ko lahat but i ended up a big loser! and now im best describe as "BITTER".
i came to a certain point that i was so exhausted so tired of everything i stop working i stop making my self being pressured and starting letting go the burden in my life. so far im happy where am i right now happy and happy what im doing!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
WHEN WE HOLD ON TO BETRAYAL,ANGER AND HURT
until now im still having a trouble doing the forgive and forget things.
many of us cant let go of certain hurt feelings ,holding grunge againts someone who done you wrong probably hurts you most. most of us believe that the person who hurt us should pay for pain they cause; that they deserve to be punished,not forgiven. but ,even though it may seem that a willingness to forgive lets the other person off too easy, in fact, when we hold on righteously to anger, betrayal and hurt we're the one who suffer in the long run.
bottom line: accept the pain someone has cause you, feel the anger and hurt of it one last time then conciously forgive them and wish for their happiness.
many of us cant let go of certain hurt feelings ,holding grunge againts someone who done you wrong probably hurts you most. most of us believe that the person who hurt us should pay for pain they cause; that they deserve to be punished,not forgiven. but ,even though it may seem that a willingness to forgive lets the other person off too easy, in fact, when we hold on righteously to anger, betrayal and hurt we're the one who suffer in the long run.
bottom line: accept the pain someone has cause you, feel the anger and hurt of it one last time then conciously forgive them and wish for their happiness.
does absence makes the heart grow fonder or wander?
im here he's there. its so hard not seeing him for a months or worse,years.longdistance relationship carries higher cheating , gigantic phone bills and HECK no sex! its so hard to be with someone who is not physicaly around - it's just not feasible.imagine face-to-face relationship are already hard how much more when the other is thousands of miles away. there's also the "why bother or bakit pa" attitude. .
long distance relationship is nothing new. while some begin their relationship already apart other begin in more traditional foot: physicaly together until one of them has to leave like a grant in working abroad. when this happen its quite logical to end the relationship yet some still choose to remain together despite the distance .
we were great together to the point where people thought we were going to get married but i choose to end our relationhip (pero d nya alam tapos na kami) its not that i am weak i just wanted to spare ourselves from the hassle and hurt. its more like saving yourself from the heartbreak that's about to come "an ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure".
long distance relationship is nothing new. while some begin their relationship already apart other begin in more traditional foot: physicaly together until one of them has to leave like a grant in working abroad. when this happen its quite logical to end the relationship yet some still choose to remain together despite the distance .
we were great together to the point where people thought we were going to get married but i choose to end our relationhip (pero d nya alam tapos na kami) its not that i am weak i just wanted to spare ourselves from the hassle and hurt. its more like saving yourself from the heartbreak that's about to come "an ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure".
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