FELIZ NAVIDAD!!!

to ALL yolanda survivors MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
We all experience vast destructions wrought by super typhoon Yolanda.
We experience how super typhoon damage our houses, churches, schools, government buildings,
electric posts and all structures that meet the eye of typhoon Yolanda.
we saw thousands of people who were killed, more than 6,000 casualties.
despite all these the Lord is still guiding and protecting us.

do not let the devastation wrought by Typhoon Yolanda prevent us
from remembering and celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ.
Christmas will always be here,
like our birthdays will always be here for us to celebrate.

we survivors are very grateful for the help extended by kind hearted people
not only from fellow Filipinos but also from all over the world.
Our faith in God is not destroyed;
Yolanda is a strong typhoon but our Faith is stronger which Yolanda cannot destroy.


There are many things that we cannot understand
but we have to understand thing happens for a reason.
with our Father in Heaven and our Mother Mary,
we know we can hurdle all these problems; there is still HOPE.

IN ADDITION TO THIS i would like to say thank you to those who donated their clothes,
blankets, pillow cover ,cash donations its a big help for me and my family to start.
but actually i don't call it donation i call it early CHRISTMAS GIFT hehehe...
but the real christmas gift for me... that i'm fortunate enough none of my family and relatives die. (:


MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE!!! #TINDOG KA POSTEHAN HIT TACLOBAN!

face the future

Don’t dwell on the past.
Your history can’t be erased, but your future has yet to be written.
Make the most of what’s going to happen instead of worrying about what you can’t change. Don’t waste your time being sad, because you’re wasting away moments in which you could be happy.
It’s taken me awhile, but i’m learning that letting go of the past is a good thing.
It doesn’t mean forgetting, it just means moving on.
And you can’t enjoy the present when you’re stuck in the past.
Don’t cry for what might have been, don’t live in the past.
It was supposed to be forever?
Well forever doesn’t always lasts.
Lift your head and dry your tears, forget about yesterday.
We had the time of our life, but we must move on. Let it fade away.

ME,ONLY ME,THE BETTER ME

The ONLY person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday…

Give up comparing yourself to others. Take yourself out of the competition. We are all on our own unique paths. We are each only equipped with the tools our own experiences have afforded us.

So don’t change to be better than those around you. Change to better yourself.

accept the real me or leave me

I realized that,

You cannot force anyone to love you...
So just be YOU...
To those who complain of being me
To those who compare me and demand to be someone who's not me
To those who leave...
because they are selective of what they want me to be like,
NEVER really loved me,

this all i can say:
"IF YOU LOVE ME THEN ACCEPT ME IF NOT THEN LEAVE.
I WON'T CHANGE JUST TO BECOME YOUR IDEAL GIRLFRIEND
BECAUSE IDEAL GIRLFRIEND ARE NOT GREAT PRETENDERS
THEY'RE THE ONE WHO ARE TRUE TO THEMSELVES"



NOTE:Never change for anyone because it never Lasts.
So just be TRUE. Be REAL. Be YOU.

NATAL DAY

Thank you, Papa God, for giving me another year of life.
and also for everything that you've allowed me to have in this past year
Thank you for all the experience
for the good and the bad
for the old and the new
for the hard and easy
Thank you for times of success which will always be happy memories,
Thank you for times of failure which reminded me of my own weakness and of my need for you,
Thank you for making both pain and joy so beautiful.
Thank you for the love and laughter and all the important things that matter
Thank you for times of sadness which drove me to you.
Thank you Papa God for all of it and ask only that the experiences help me
to become wiser and more loving person in the coming year.


Forgive me
for the hours I wasted,
for the chances I failed to take,
for the opportunities I missed this past year.
Help me in facing new beginning, new adventure new appreciation for things for the coming year
Papa God i trust you that you will put me through experiences for a good reason.
direct me where you want me to be.i lift to you my ambition (lawyer)
Help me in the days ahead to make this the best year yet,
and through it i could bring good credit to myself,
happiness and pride to my loved ones (family),
and joy to you Papa GOD.

thank you also to those who greeted me on my natal day.

With much sincerity and happiness I thank everyone who greeted me
I was not expecting to do anything special
and I was even preparing myself to make the day a very normal day
but all the calls and messages forced me to see this day as a very special and memorable one.
You, everyone are the reason my birthday was made special.
I intentionally hide my birthday on facebook so that i would know who could remember.
It is very overwhelming and touching to know people remembered and took even a little time and effort of to greet me.
Your messages mean a lot and keep me strong and passionate and courageous and even loving about what I do.

My birthday wish is for everyone to treat each other the way you treated me during my birthday everyday.
That love and care is not seasonal and is shared specially to those who are forgotten and lost.

Thank you

TO GOD BE THE GLORY

just bored staying in my four corner room

Documenting my dreams is harder than I thought. Every time I wake up, my first instinct is to go back to sleep.
I think I need to have some sort of stimulus in order to experience truly bizarre dreams.


I think I should document my dreams in order to have yet another perspective of my unconscious self.
Not that I need more introspection, or that I need to understand my dreams' symbolic meanings
(I can interpret most of my dreams, thank you).
I think documenting my dreams will provide more insight into the inner forces that influence my thoughts and actions.
I also have this theory that my unconscious self constantly analyzes and absorbs external information,
and this manifest itself as being able to see the future in my dreams.
I don't believe in the supernatural. Blah, blah, blah. I'll blog later.
Just dumping my thoughts online.

pls. be contented

Be contented with your boyfriend/girlfriend.
Yes, there are people who are greater than me.
There are people who are more attractive, more intelligent, more caring, and more fortunate.
That’s life - full of temptations.
But don’t be deceived by those things.
Because didn't you ever realize that there are people who are also greater than you?
Yet, i chose you.

im not stupid!

I was not born to insist myself to someone who doesnt want me anymore,
when i start to feel that im not important to a person,
i take initiative to stay away...
but it does mean i intentionally left the person
i just dont want to push my self to those people who doesn't need me at all.

I give Love, Yes I do... In fact, I easily fall for someone who makes me feel special.. But when I sense that the person is starting to get rid of me..
I won't waste time...
I won't wait for him to neglect my presence...

sometimes you have to stop loving the person the most important person in our life.
not becoz the spark is gone.
but because that person is unintentionally making you feel
WORTHLESS

Love doesn't fade easily, but mark my words... I can contradict my feelings just to make sure I won't look stupid... hehehehehe

eleksyon 2013

SHOUT from my FB friend ...re-post and comments...

QUESTION: KUN IKAW MADALAGAN YNA NA TIDARA-ON NA ELEKSYON ANO IT IMO PLATA PORMA?

comment 1: dire na uso it plata porma kay nahihimo nla nga puro porma.. tuod kba han "kwarta karawata ibutos an im kursunada"

comment 2: uswag kon teuruswag ayaw kamo hin alang2 deritsu ha kusina igbutos niyo ...(name)

Rules for a Happy Marriage

1. Never both be angry at the same time.
2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
4. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.
6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
8. At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life's partner.
9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit and ask for forgiveness.
10. It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

best break ups

Hindi porke naghiwalay kayo ng EX mo,
May karapatan ka nang sira-siraan siya at ikalat ang mga BAHO niya!

Maaring biktima ka?
O isa ka sa gumawa din nito dahil sa pagiging "bitter" mo! (isang senyales na hindi ka pa totally move on!

Isang pangyayari na Kung saan lahat ng mali sa kanya, lahat ng pangit, lahat ng pagkukulang, lahat ng kasiraan o sikreto niya ay basta basta mo lang ibubunyag!

Wala kang karapatang gawin iyon, kung sakali man na iyon ang ginagawa sa iyo ng EX mo, hindi mo iyon ikakapahiya kundi ng taong naninira sa iyo.


The best breaks up are the one's that are silent.
if you have truly love someone and it doesn't work.
then its more respectable to go out of loving relationship
without saying any bad or disrespectful words.
it is not easy to go away quietly but sometimes it is worths keeping
the sweet loving memories in your heart wothout any bitterness

LOVE NEVER HURTS by: TOBZ101

Sarap magmahal

Sarap magmahal ng taong mahal na mahal ka

Yung tipong hindi maghahanap ng iba dahil nandyan kana

Hindi makikipagtextmate sa iba dahil walang gana...

Hindi sasama dahil gusto nya na sayo lang sya...

At higit sa lahat kayang ipagmalaki na "GF" ko yan

Mahal na mahal ko yan at kahit anong mangyari di ko iiwan yan...?

Mahalin mo ang isang tao, habang mahal ka pa.

Mahalin mo ang isang tao, habang mahal ka pa.
Dahil baka hanapin mo yan sa mga susunod na araw na nararamdaman niyang nagsasawa na siya sayo, samantalahin at damhin mong mabuti ang pagmamahal niya, hindi lahat ng tao nakakaramdam ng tunay na pagmamahal, alagaan mo ito hanggat maari, hindi mo masasabi hanggang kailan yang pagmamahal na yan.
Hindi mo rin sigurado kung sino ang mga makikilala niyan, mahalin mo siya habang solong solo mo pa siya, minsan lang magmamahal ng ganyan yan. At kapag dumating na ang araw na nahirapan na siya, nagsawa na siya at nabaling ang atensyon niya sa iba, siguro magpasalamat ka na lang na minahal ka niya.
Dito dadating ang araw na mamimiss mo siya, magseselos ka, maiinggit ka, dahil ibang tao na ang pinapakitaan niya ng mga bagay na hindi mo napansin nung kayo pa.

love is like a basketball by:tobz1001

just leave

If you cannot stand all the fights and misunderstandings, Leave.
If you cannot give the right love for the person you love, Leave.
If you're unhappy, Leave.

Small ways to make a girl happy.

1. If you like her, straight up tell her.
No one likes mixed signals. Have confidence,bro.

2. When you hug her, hug her like you mean it.
Don't give her one of those one-armed woosie hugs.
Make it tight and meaningful. It'll make her feel secure.

3. When you walk next to a girl, get as close as you can.
Even lightly bump into her at times.
Believe it or not, this is another way of saying
'I like you'.

4. Give her gifts "just because"
Shoot you don't need a special occasion to give a girl a gift.
Do it in the least meaningful of times. Surprise her a little bit.

5. Kiss her slightly. No one likes sloppiness.
Put something behind your kiss every chance you get.

6. Don't over use, "I love you".
If you have to, say it rarely.
Girls would rather hear you say it once and mean it,
rather than say it a dozen times in a day and never mean it.

JUST CAN'T FIGURED OUT

it’s just the whole thing. there’s so many things I have to figure out.

- about how I live my life

- what kind of way I want my life to be

- why I do things I do

- how can I be exactly like what I want and what I need to be

- how I plan things when I’m not sure of doing it

- what I need the most for my life

- who are my best friends

- who deserves to be loved by me

- why people always leave

- and the last thing... how do I figure this all out?

>:(

sometimes goodbye though it hurt to your heart is the only way to destiny

everything has its own purpose and reason


i never thought this heart would beat again...
i never thought i could forget all those sad memories i have...
he change my bitterness to betterness.
cant call him Mr.right
but one thing for sure I'm happy being with him.



god help me to put me in the right way.i would say thank you for letting it happen

Letting Go.

its a lot harder than it seems.
You talk all day, everyday.
You fall asleep on the phone together.
You wake up to good morning texts.
You think about them every second you’re awake
then when you’re asleep, you dream about them.
You spend time with them whether it’s in person or not.
They soon become a part of your everyday life and you get used to it…
Then all of a sudden, they leave.
Most of the time once they’re gone, they’re gone for good.
Meaning, no more late night calls, no more cute text messages (actually no texts at all), no more ’ i love you ’ ‘babe ‘ all of that.
The first few days you will want to call, text, send them an ask, IM, really do everything just to talk to them and restore what’s “normal”.
But, as much as you try, things don’t change.
The hardest part is letting go.
You check their facebook often just to see what they’re doing and also to see if they have someone new.
This person that was once your everything is now just a memory.
A memory that you replay over and over again in your head.
You spend nights reminiscing in the said words, shared laughs, the kisses, all the good things that went on during the time you two were together.
Letting go can take weeks, months, even years.
Remember that this was just a fragment of time, a memory that will someday fade. ♥

never deny what you really feel

I'm sorry if sometimes i didn't let you feel how special you are to me...maybe because of pride, self-denial...fear of rejection or maybe because of a simple fact that i tend to deny to my self of the things that makes me happy just to play safe and eliminate the possibility of getting hurt.

sponge bob once said:
"how will you know if someone loves you if you don't tell them that you love them too?"

true meaning of relationship

The true meaning of relationships is that,
no matter how people don’t want to see you together
or no matter how an imperfect couple people think of you,
if you love each other,
you will fight for your love.
You will fight for each other
and you will not let a single issue break you up. ♥

11 painful things

1. bring back the feeling you've learned to forget.
2. reminiscing the good times
3. trying to hide what you really feel
4. loving someone who loves another
5. having a commitment with someone you know would not last.
6. shielding your heart to love somebody.
7. loving a person too much.
8. right love at the wrong time.
9. taking risk to fall in love again.
10. accepting that it was never meant to be.
11. "what ifs"

move on, accept, forget

There's no such thing as moving on,
just accepting something happened.
In terms of accepting, forgetting is not the key.
If you accept everything that had happened,
remembering back-thens' will be easy for you.
One day you'll find yourself far from the crash site
but when you look back, it won't hurt that much.
In fact, you may be even happy that it happened. :]

Understand her.

In order to understand her now,
you must learn about her past
and understand that first because her past is what made her who she is now,
maybe she’s been hurt so much it’s hard for her to trust
so she puts these walls up around her and barricades her heart,
she’s afraid that just maybe that if she opens up again
that she will end up hurt again and she doesn’t want to go through that phase again. With that being said you have to listen to what she says,
get to know what her mind is like,
her thoughts are a representation of her feelings.
You have to get to know her for who she is and always be honest with her so you can slowly build this trusting relationship with her.
Don’t be the guy that doesn’t understand his girlfriend and the way she acts, because you never took the time to learn and understand her past, you know?

Don’t let people tell you who to love and who not to love.

When you love someone and you truly feel it in your heart
then let them know, know that regardless of what people say your feelings
for that one special person won’t ever change because what you feel is “real”
and you know in your mind that person is the one you want to be with.
Remember a relationship is between two people and not three.
If they make you happy with everything they do
and they are able to make you smile like no other person can make you smile
then cherish them and let them know how special they are to you,
Let them know that they are loved by being there for the when they need you to be.
Instead of being the reason they are sad, be the reason they smile and make them happy. Life’s to short to listen to what other people say, so like I said if what you feel in your heart is genuine love for that special someone then go with it and let them know regardless of what other people may think or say. The decision of who you choose to love is fully up to you and no one else, remember that. ♥

WANNA GIVE UP

Give up blaming others for my troubles.
Give up trying to live up to the expectations of others.
Give up the ‘easy street’ mentality.
Give up making promises i can’t keep.
Give up letting my thoughts and feelings bottle up inside.
Give up avoiding change.
Give up your sense of entitlement.
Give up foolish habits that you know are foolish.
Give up relationships with people who bring you down.
Give up worrying about what others think of you.
Give up trying to control everything.
Give up doing the same thing over and over again.
Give up persistent multi-tasking. .
Give up thinking others are luckier than me.
Give up filling every waking moment with commitments and activities.
Give up making emotional decisions.
Give up doing the wrong things just because you can get away with it.
Give up focusing on what i don’t want to happen.
Give up taking myself so seriously.
Give up thinking about the things i d don't have.
Give up doubting others.
Give up trying to fit in.
Give up trying to be different for the sake of being different.
Give up trying to avoid risk.

from the movie one more chance

pamatay na line....

will you wish for more if you have this?

A boy who calls almost every minute just to say he loves you.
A boy who desperately hugs you every time you fight,
A boy who holds your hands and clasps it tightly but gently.
Stares at you as if you’re the only woman around.
Sings you songs even if he doesn’t have a good voice.
Pulls you when it rains just to dance with you.
Lastly, a boy who pulls you back in his arms when you’re hurt.
Even after you pushed him away and broke his heart. ♥