how to survive in LDR

Hi, my name’s Ethel, and I’ve been in a long distance relationship with my long-term boyfriend.


The most difficult parts of a long distance relationship is handling the fact that you are not physically there with your partner. CHALLENGING AND DIFFICULT, though they may not be what we want to hear, are the words that best describe long distance relationships. not physically there with your partner. This lack of physical presence can make the whole relationship seem like an illusion. I am sure that almost every person in an LDR has wondered at some point about whether the relationship was actually real or just wishful thinking.


Trust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance.Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts(tsk...tsk...tsk..)



HERE ARE SOME TIPS I SEARCH HOW TO SURVIVE IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP;

1.Don't fall out of touch, even for a short time (we don't have this)

2.Get to know as much as you can about each other(we don't have this)

3.Be there when needed(sorry but he's miles away)

4.Talk about daily routines, like what you done few hours ago, what you are doing now, or what are you going to do (we don't have this)

5.Share time together on the internet.(we don't have this)

6.Be honest. If you are feeling neglected or upset about something that your partner said, speak up. (for wat?)

7.Do not turn the cell phone off unless your in a place where using cellphone is not allowed.(my cellphone pero wla silbi evn thou nka ON hahaha gabay ibaligya)

8.Be a good listener to your partner. Listen to him attentively and try to feel how he feels. In other words, don't just focus on his words but more on his feelings.(I'm willing to listen but no one tels)

9.Important dates. Always keep in mind her birthday, your anniversary, and other events which are important to your partner.(kulang D-day pa as in D!!!)

10.Prioritize. Let him know that you would rather stay at home to chat with him than go out with your friends.(huh? my ng advice skin wag magin die hard...which is which?)

11.Take interest in the country your partner is living in, like the cost of living, the place where he stay, the weather (we don't have this)





Many people in long-distance relationships say that the being away from their partner makes the time they are together special; every day they are together is like Valentine’s Day. The absence, they say, helps them to appreciate their partner more and makes the relationship stronger.Some People say in long-distance relationships tend to be more idealized and romanticized but why is it were going in the opposite side?

but It really is the best of both worlds and as exciting and romantic as when you can finally get to live in the same zip code but its impossible (sad but true) ngayon plang i can see our future...i don't want to initiate 1st or make an effort in our relationship I'm so tired come what may nalang...but if we breakup because we have less communication masasabi ko lng we reach 5yrs because of my effort and in the absence in my effort we ended in break up.which means wla cxa ka effort effort hehehe


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