Is I.T society connecting to real life society?
Are they use to communicate with Family and friends or becoming loners?
i admit im becoming loner because of this hi-tech gadgets.i enjoy listening music with my mp4.in office i enjoy surfing the net than talking with my co-employees,at b-house i enjoy playing games in my laptop or texting my friends in province.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
if jesus came to your house
If Jesus came to your house to spend a day or two
If he came unexpectedly, I wonder what you’d do.
Ohh I know! You’ll give your nicest room to such an honor guest, and you keep assuring him you’re glad to have him there. That serving him in your home is your joy beyond compare.
But when you saw him coming would you meet him at the door, with arms out stretch in welcome to your heavenly visitors?
Or would you have to change your clothes before you let him in?
Or hide some magazines and put your missals were they have been?
Would you turn off the t.v., and hope he hadn’t heard?
And wish you hadn’t uttered the last, loud, hasty word?
Would you hide your wordy music and put some hymn word?
Could you let Jesus walk right in? Or would you rush about?
And I wonder if the savior spent a day or two on you.
Would you go right on doing the things you always do?
Would you go right on saying the things you always say?
Would life for you continue as it does from day to day?
Would your family conversation keep up its usual pace?
And would you find it hard each meal to say a table grace?
Would you sing the song you always sing, and read the books you always read?
And let him know the things on which your mind and spirit feed?
Would you take Jesus with you everywhere you’d planned to go?
Or would you maybe change your plans from just a day or two?
Would you be glad to have him meet your closest friend?
Or would you hope they’d stay away, until his visit ends?
Would you be glad to have him stay forever?
Or would you sigh with great relief, when he at last was gone?
It might be interesting to know the things that you would do if Jesus came in person to spend some time with you
If he came unexpectedly, I wonder what you’d do.
Ohh I know! You’ll give your nicest room to such an honor guest, and you keep assuring him you’re glad to have him there. That serving him in your home is your joy beyond compare.
But when you saw him coming would you meet him at the door, with arms out stretch in welcome to your heavenly visitors?
Or would you have to change your clothes before you let him in?
Or hide some magazines and put your missals were they have been?
Would you turn off the t.v., and hope he hadn’t heard?
And wish you hadn’t uttered the last, loud, hasty word?
Would you hide your wordy music and put some hymn word?
Could you let Jesus walk right in? Or would you rush about?
And I wonder if the savior spent a day or two on you.
Would you go right on doing the things you always do?
Would you go right on saying the things you always say?
Would life for you continue as it does from day to day?
Would your family conversation keep up its usual pace?
And would you find it hard each meal to say a table grace?
Would you sing the song you always sing, and read the books you always read?
And let him know the things on which your mind and spirit feed?
Would you take Jesus with you everywhere you’d planned to go?
Or would you maybe change your plans from just a day or two?
Would you be glad to have him meet your closest friend?
Or would you hope they’d stay away, until his visit ends?
Would you be glad to have him stay forever?
Or would you sigh with great relief, when he at last was gone?
It might be interesting to know the things that you would do if Jesus came in person to spend some time with you
Monday, March 9, 2009
how to survive in LDR
Hi, my name’s Ethel, and I’ve been in a long distance relationship with my long-term boyfriend.
The most difficult parts of a long distance relationship is handling the fact that you are not physically there with your partner. CHALLENGING AND DIFFICULT, though they may not be what we want to hear, are the words that best describe long distance relationships. not physically there with your partner. This lack of physical presence can make the whole relationship seem like an illusion. I am sure that almost every person in an LDR has wondered at some point about whether the relationship was actually real or just wishful thinking.
Trust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance.Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts(tsk...tsk...tsk..)
HERE ARE SOME TIPS I SEARCH HOW TO SURVIVE IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP;
1.Don't fall out of touch, even for a short time (we don't have this)
2.Get to know as much as you can about each other(we don't have this)
3.Be there when needed(sorry but he's miles away)
4.Talk about daily routines, like what you done few hours ago, what you are doing now, or what are you going to do (we don't have this)
5.Share time together on the internet.(we don't have this)
6.Be honest. If you are feeling neglected or upset about something that your partner said, speak up. (for wat?)
7.Do not turn the cell phone off unless your in a place where using cellphone is not allowed.(my cellphone pero wla silbi evn thou nka ON hahaha gabay ibaligya)
8.Be a good listener to your partner. Listen to him attentively and try to feel how he feels. In other words, don't just focus on his words but more on his feelings.(I'm willing to listen but no one tels)
9.Important dates. Always keep in mind her birthday, your anniversary, and other events which are important to your partner.(kulang D-day pa as in D!!!)
10.Prioritize. Let him know that you would rather stay at home to chat with him than go out with your friends.(huh? my ng advice skin wag magin die hard...which is which?)
11.Take interest in the country your partner is living in, like the cost of living, the place where he stay, the weather (we don't have this)
Many people in long-distance relationships say that the being away from their partner makes the time they are together special; every day they are together is like Valentine’s Day. The absence, they say, helps them to appreciate their partner more and makes the relationship stronger.Some People say in long-distance relationships tend to be more idealized and romanticized but why is it were going in the opposite side?
but It really is the best of both worlds and as exciting and romantic as when you can finally get to live in the same zip code but its impossible (sad but true) ngayon plang i can see our future...i don't want to initiate 1st or make an effort in our relationship I'm so tired come what may nalang...but if we breakup because we have less communication masasabi ko lng we reach 5yrs because of my effort and in the absence in my effort we ended in break up.which means wla cxa ka effort effort hehehe
cee yah hope you'll find my blog valuable...
The most difficult parts of a long distance relationship is handling the fact that you are not physically there with your partner. CHALLENGING AND DIFFICULT, though they may not be what we want to hear, are the words that best describe long distance relationships. not physically there with your partner. This lack of physical presence can make the whole relationship seem like an illusion. I am sure that almost every person in an LDR has wondered at some point about whether the relationship was actually real or just wishful thinking.
Trust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance.Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts(tsk...tsk...tsk..)
HERE ARE SOME TIPS I SEARCH HOW TO SURVIVE IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP;
1.Don't fall out of touch, even for a short time (we don't have this)
2.Get to know as much as you can about each other(we don't have this)
3.Be there when needed(sorry but he's miles away)
4.Talk about daily routines, like what you done few hours ago, what you are doing now, or what are you going to do (we don't have this)
5.Share time together on the internet.(we don't have this)
6.Be honest. If you are feeling neglected or upset about something that your partner said, speak up. (for wat?)
7.Do not turn the cell phone off unless your in a place where using cellphone is not allowed.(my cellphone pero wla silbi evn thou nka ON hahaha gabay ibaligya)
8.Be a good listener to your partner. Listen to him attentively and try to feel how he feels. In other words, don't just focus on his words but more on his feelings.(I'm willing to listen but no one tels)
9.Important dates. Always keep in mind her birthday, your anniversary, and other events which are important to your partner.(kulang D-day pa as in D!!!)
10.Prioritize. Let him know that you would rather stay at home to chat with him than go out with your friends.(huh? my ng advice skin wag magin die hard...which is which?)
11.Take interest in the country your partner is living in, like the cost of living, the place where he stay, the weather (we don't have this)
Many people in long-distance relationships say that the being away from their partner makes the time they are together special; every day they are together is like Valentine’s Day. The absence, they say, helps them to appreciate their partner more and makes the relationship stronger.Some People say in long-distance relationships tend to be more idealized and romanticized but why is it were going in the opposite side?
but It really is the best of both worlds and as exciting and romantic as when you can finally get to live in the same zip code but its impossible (sad but true) ngayon plang i can see our future...i don't want to initiate 1st or make an effort in our relationship I'm so tired come what may nalang...but if we breakup because we have less communication masasabi ko lng we reach 5yrs because of my effort and in the absence in my effort we ended in break up.which means wla cxa ka effort effort hehehe
cee yah hope you'll find my blog valuable...
LyF in MaKaTi
lyf in makati would be very boring...This is a story about a girl who chose to work in makati far from her family far from her friends.Everyday she always feel all alone no friends to talk with,no family to comfort with.
she wakes up every morning at 7am preparing to her work (wla kausap kc lahat tulog) at 8am maglalakad sa kahabaan ng makati ave.She spent her whole day in her office preparing invoices...reports etc. etc. until 9pm (wla kausap sa office sa sobra dami ngwork in short ngarag sa work) after her work she go home all alone maglalakad uli ng kahabaan ng makati ave.When she's in her bording house shes all alone again because her co bord mates is in graveyard shift.that's her daily routine...simple and so boring.
sometimes its not worthy to work just for money when your not happy...
she wakes up every morning at 7am preparing to her work (wla kausap kc lahat tulog) at 8am maglalakad sa kahabaan ng makati ave.She spent her whole day in her office preparing invoices...reports etc. etc. until 9pm (wla kausap sa office sa sobra dami ngwork in short ngarag sa work) after her work she go home all alone maglalakad uli ng kahabaan ng makati ave.When she's in her bording house shes all alone again because her co bord mates is in graveyard shift.that's her daily routine...simple and so boring.
sometimes its not worthy to work just for money when your not happy...
Sunday, March 8, 2009
the BaD SyD AnD the GooD SyD
everybody has its good side and bad side.except me...
meet me!!! im the person who has bad side but dont have a good side.I myself dont know wats my good side how much more other people.
but if the person die's its the only time they see its good side and forget all those bad sides.do u agree? pumunta kau sa lahat ng burol...lahat ng bukang bibig ng nakikiramay ay puro kabaitan ng tao while he/she alive.but why is it when your still alive wla makapagsabi ng good side mo kundi lahat ng makikita sayo ay ang mga mali mo.
meet me!!! im the person who has bad side but dont have a good side.I myself dont know wats my good side how much more other people.
but if the person die's its the only time they see its good side and forget all those bad sides.do u agree? pumunta kau sa lahat ng burol...lahat ng bukang bibig ng nakikiramay ay puro kabaitan ng tao while he/she alive.but why is it when your still alive wla makapagsabi ng good side mo kundi lahat ng makikita sayo ay ang mga mali mo.
Saturday, January 3, 2009
wish i cud turn back times
i made mistakes...dcision (n dre asya) now im sufering nk mga palpak n dcisions...
i know nobody wud understand me...coz nobody knows (sigh)...
kaya wasted...WASTED!!!! WASTED!!! WASTED!!!! yan yung 2008 ko WASTED!!!
wish i cud turn back times.... mas happy p unta ak yna with no regrets.
all i can do is to
(sigh)
(sigh)
(sigh)
i know nobody wud understand me...coz nobody knows (sigh)...
kaya wasted...WASTED!!!! WASTED!!! WASTED!!!! yan yung 2008 ko WASTED!!!
wish i cud turn back times.... mas happy p unta ak yna with no regrets.
all i can do is to
(sigh)
(sigh)
(sigh)
do long distance relationship survive..?
will we survive..?
or wud i give up....
Challenging and difficult, though they may not be what we want to hear, are the words that best describe long distance relationships. Keep in mind however, that the words are challenging and difficult, not impossible. Many people choose to give a long distance relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decision to make and if it even stands a chance. The truth is, a long distance relationship has just as much a chance of succeeding as any other relationship!
Long Distance Relationships share the same facts as an average relationship. It involves two people who share an interest in each other?s lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its differences as well. It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent note, as well as the choice of being intimate whenever you desire, not to mention that there would be major trust required. Being unable to spend time together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on to, but does not spell out doom for your relationship.
The first step is to make an agreement of what your expectations are in the relationship and how much of a commitment you are willing to give and receive. If the two of you decide to be monogamous, then it is clear that neither of you will be dating anyone else as long as your romantic relationship exists. Being clear about what you both want is extremely important, especially in a long distance relationship, in order to prevent future misunderstandings and mistakes. Do not feel afraid to tell your partner what you really need and want from him or her, you deserve the chance to speak from your heart and he or she deserves to know the truth and judge whether they can give it to you.
Trust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance. Without trust and honesty, the relationship is in for danger and unsuccessfulness, just as it would be any other relationship. By accepting the challenge of a long distance relationship, you also accepted the fact that you will have to have the trust and faith that your partner will not be seeing anyone else as promised. Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts, insecurity and tension between you and none of those three will help the relationship survive successfully.
or wud i give up....
Challenging and difficult, though they may not be what we want to hear, are the words that best describe long distance relationships. Keep in mind however, that the words are challenging and difficult, not impossible. Many people choose to give a long distance relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decision to make and if it even stands a chance. The truth is, a long distance relationship has just as much a chance of succeeding as any other relationship!
Long Distance Relationships share the same facts as an average relationship. It involves two people who share an interest in each other?s lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its differences as well. It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent note, as well as the choice of being intimate whenever you desire, not to mention that there would be major trust required. Being unable to spend time together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on to, but does not spell out doom for your relationship.
The first step is to make an agreement of what your expectations are in the relationship and how much of a commitment you are willing to give and receive. If the two of you decide to be monogamous, then it is clear that neither of you will be dating anyone else as long as your romantic relationship exists. Being clear about what you both want is extremely important, especially in a long distance relationship, in order to prevent future misunderstandings and mistakes. Do not feel afraid to tell your partner what you really need and want from him or her, you deserve the chance to speak from your heart and he or she deserves to know the truth and judge whether they can give it to you.
Trust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance. Without trust and honesty, the relationship is in for danger and unsuccessfulness, just as it would be any other relationship. By accepting the challenge of a long distance relationship, you also accepted the fact that you will have to have the trust and faith that your partner will not be seeing anyone else as promised. Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts, insecurity and tension between you and none of those three will help the relationship survive successfully.
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