Understand her.

In order to understand her now,
you must learn about her past
and understand that first because her past is what made her who she is now,
maybe she’s been hurt so much it’s hard for her to trust
so she puts these walls up around her and barricades her heart,
she’s afraid that just maybe that if she opens up again
that she will end up hurt again and she doesn’t want to go through that phase again. With that being said you have to listen to what she says,
get to know what her mind is like,
her thoughts are a representation of her feelings.
You have to get to know her for who she is and always be honest with her so you can slowly build this trusting relationship with her.
Don’t be the guy that doesn’t understand his girlfriend and the way she acts, because you never took the time to learn and understand her past, you know?

Don’t let people tell you who to love and who not to love.

When you love someone and you truly feel it in your heart
then let them know, know that regardless of what people say your feelings
for that one special person won’t ever change because what you feel is “real”
and you know in your mind that person is the one you want to be with.
Remember a relationship is between two people and not three.
If they make you happy with everything they do
and they are able to make you smile like no other person can make you smile
then cherish them and let them know how special they are to you,
Let them know that they are loved by being there for the when they need you to be.
Instead of being the reason they are sad, be the reason they smile and make them happy. Life’s to short to listen to what other people say, so like I said if what you feel in your heart is genuine love for that special someone then go with it and let them know regardless of what other people may think or say. The decision of who you choose to love is fully up to you and no one else, remember that. ♥