SHOUT from my FB friend ...re-post and comments...
QUESTION: KUN IKAW MADALAGAN YNA NA TIDARA-ON NA ELEKSYON ANO IT IMO PLATA PORMA?
comment 1: dire na uso it plata porma kay nahihimo nla nga puro porma.. tuod kba han "kwarta karawata ibutos an im kursunada"
comment 2: uswag kon teuruswag ayaw kamo hin alang2 deritsu ha kusina igbutos niyo ...(name)
Monday, March 25, 2013
Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Rules for a Happy Marriage
1. Never both be angry at the same time.
2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
4. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.
6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
8. At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life's partner.
9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit and ask for forgiveness.
10. It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.
Thursday, February 28, 2013
best break ups

Hindi porke naghiwalay kayo ng EX mo,
May karapatan ka nang sira-siraan siya at ikalat ang mga BAHO niya!
Maaring biktima ka?
O isa ka sa gumawa din nito dahil sa pagiging "bitter" mo! (isang senyales na hindi ka pa totally move on!
Isang pangyayari na Kung saan lahat ng mali sa kanya, lahat ng pangit, lahat ng pagkukulang, lahat ng kasiraan o sikreto niya ay basta basta mo lang ibubunyag!
Wala kang karapatang gawin iyon, kung sakali man na iyon ang ginagawa sa iyo ng EX mo, hindi mo iyon ikakapahiya kundi ng taong naninira sa iyo.
The best breaks up are the one's that are silent.
if you have truly love someone and it doesn't work.
then its more respectable to go out of loving relationship
without saying any bad or disrespectful words.
it is not easy to go away quietly but sometimes it is worths keeping
the sweet loving memories in your heart wothout any bitterness
Thursday, February 21, 2013
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Sarap magmahal

Sarap magmahal ng taong mahal na mahal ka
Yung tipong hindi maghahanap ng iba dahil nandyan kana
Hindi makikipagtextmate sa iba dahil walang gana...
Hindi sasama dahil gusto nya na sayo lang sya...
At higit sa lahat kayang ipagmalaki na "GF" ko yan
Mahal na mahal ko yan at kahit anong mangyari di ko iiwan yan...?
Mahalin mo ang isang tao, habang mahal ka pa.

Mahalin mo ang isang tao, habang mahal ka pa.
Dahil baka hanapin mo yan sa mga susunod na araw na nararamdaman niyang nagsasawa na siya sayo, samantalahin at damhin mong mabuti ang pagmamahal niya, hindi lahat ng tao nakakaramdam ng tunay na pagmamahal, alagaan mo ito hanggat maari, hindi mo masasabi hanggang kailan yang pagmamahal na yan.
Hindi mo rin sigurado kung sino ang mga makikilala niyan, mahalin mo siya habang solong solo mo pa siya, minsan lang magmamahal ng ganyan yan. At kapag dumating na ang araw na nahirapan na siya, nagsawa na siya at nabaling ang atensyon niya sa iba, siguro magpasalamat ka na lang na minahal ka niya.
Dito dadating ang araw na mamimiss mo siya, magseselos ka, maiinggit ka, dahil ibang tao na ang pinapakitaan niya ng mga bagay na hindi mo napansin nung kayo pa.
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Monday, February 11, 2013
just leave
If you cannot stand all the fights and misunderstandings, Leave.
If you cannot give the right love for the person you love, Leave.
If you're unhappy, Leave.
If you cannot give the right love for the person you love, Leave.
If you're unhappy, Leave.
Small ways to make a girl happy.
1. If you like her, straight up tell her.
No one likes mixed signals. Have confidence,bro.
2. When you hug her, hug her like you mean it.
Don't give her one of those one-armed woosie hugs.
Make it tight and meaningful. It'll make her feel secure.
3. When you walk next to a girl, get as close as you can.
Even lightly bump into her at times.
Believe it or not, this is another way of saying
'I like you'.
4. Give her gifts "just because"
Shoot you don't need a special occasion to give a girl a gift.
Do it in the least meaningful of times. Surprise her a little bit.
5. Kiss her slightly. No one likes sloppiness.
Put something behind your kiss every chance you get.
6. Don't over use, "I love you".
If you have to, say it rarely.
Girls would rather hear you say it once and mean it,
rather than say it a dozen times in a day and never mean it.
JUST CAN'T FIGURED OUT
it’s just the whole thing. there’s so many things I have to figure out.
- about how I live my life
- what kind of way I want my life to be
- why I do things I do
- how can I be exactly like what I want and what I need to be
- how I plan things when I’m not sure of doing it
- what I need the most for my life
- who are my best friends
- who deserves to be loved by me
- why people always leave
- and the last thing... how do I figure this all out?
>:(
- about how I live my life
- what kind of way I want my life to be
- why I do things I do
- how can I be exactly like what I want and what I need to be
- how I plan things when I’m not sure of doing it
- what I need the most for my life
- who are my best friends
- who deserves to be loved by me
- why people always leave
- and the last thing... how do I figure this all out?
>:(
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
sometimes goodbye though it hurt to your heart is the only way to destiny
everything has its own purpose and reason
i never thought this heart would beat again...
i never thought i could forget all those sad memories i have...
he change my bitterness to betterness.
cant call him Mr.right
but one thing for sure I'm happy being with him.
god help me to put me in the right way.i would say thank you for letting it happen
i never thought this heart would beat again...
i never thought i could forget all those sad memories i have...
he change my bitterness to betterness.
cant call him Mr.right
but one thing for sure I'm happy being with him.
god help me to put me in the right way.i would say thank you for letting it happen
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Letting Go.
its a lot harder than it seems.
You talk all day, everyday.
You fall asleep on the phone together.
You wake up to good morning texts.
You think about them every second you’re awake
then when you’re asleep, you dream about them.
You spend time with them whether it’s in person or not.
They soon become a part of your everyday life and you get used to it…
Then all of a sudden, they leave.
Most of the time once they’re gone, they’re gone for good.
Meaning, no more late night calls, no more cute text messages (actually no texts at all), no more ’ i love you ’ ‘babe ‘ all of that.
The first few days you will want to call, text, send them an ask, IM, really do everything just to talk to them and restore what’s “normal”.
But, as much as you try, things don’t change.
The hardest part is letting go.
You check their facebook often just to see what they’re doing and also to see if they have someone new.
This person that was once your everything is now just a memory.
A memory that you replay over and over again in your head.
You spend nights reminiscing in the said words, shared laughs, the kisses, all the good things that went on during the time you two were together.
Letting go can take weeks, months, even years.
Remember that this was just a fragment of time, a memory that will someday fade. ♥
You talk all day, everyday.
You fall asleep on the phone together.
You wake up to good morning texts.
You think about them every second you’re awake
then when you’re asleep, you dream about them.
You spend time with them whether it’s in person or not.
They soon become a part of your everyday life and you get used to it…
Then all of a sudden, they leave.
Most of the time once they’re gone, they’re gone for good.
Meaning, no more late night calls, no more cute text messages (actually no texts at all), no more ’ i love you ’ ‘babe ‘ all of that.
The first few days you will want to call, text, send them an ask, IM, really do everything just to talk to them and restore what’s “normal”.
But, as much as you try, things don’t change.
The hardest part is letting go.
You check their facebook often just to see what they’re doing and also to see if they have someone new.
This person that was once your everything is now just a memory.
A memory that you replay over and over again in your head.
You spend nights reminiscing in the said words, shared laughs, the kisses, all the good things that went on during the time you two were together.
Letting go can take weeks, months, even years.
Remember that this was just a fragment of time, a memory that will someday fade. ♥
Saturday, January 19, 2013
never deny what you really feel
I'm sorry if sometimes i didn't let you feel how special you are to me...maybe because of pride, self-denial...fear of rejection or maybe because of a simple fact that i tend to deny to my self of the things that makes me happy just to play safe and eliminate the possibility of getting hurt.
sponge bob once said:
"how will you know if someone loves you if you don't tell them that you love them too?"
sponge bob once said:
"how will you know if someone loves you if you don't tell them that you love them too?"
Monday, January 14, 2013
true meaning of relationship
The true meaning of relationships is that,
no matter how people don’t want to see you together
or no matter how an imperfect couple people think of you,
if you love each other,
you will fight for your love.
You will fight for each other
and you will not let a single issue break you up. ♥
no matter how people don’t want to see you together
or no matter how an imperfect couple people think of you,
if you love each other,
you will fight for your love.
You will fight for each other
and you will not let a single issue break you up. ♥
Sunday, January 13, 2013
11 painful things
1. bring back the feeling you've learned to forget.
2. reminiscing the good times
3. trying to hide what you really feel
4. loving someone who loves another
5. having a commitment with someone you know would not last.
6. shielding your heart to love somebody.
7. loving a person too much.
8. right love at the wrong time.
9. taking risk to fall in love again.
10. accepting that it was never meant to be.
11. "what ifs"
2. reminiscing the good times
3. trying to hide what you really feel
4. loving someone who loves another
5. having a commitment with someone you know would not last.
6. shielding your heart to love somebody.
7. loving a person too much.
8. right love at the wrong time.
9. taking risk to fall in love again.
10. accepting that it was never meant to be.
11. "what ifs"
move on, accept, forget
There's no such thing as moving on,
just accepting something happened.
In terms of accepting, forgetting is not the key.
If you accept everything that had happened,
remembering back-thens' will be easy for you.
One day you'll find yourself far from the crash site
but when you look back, it won't hurt that much.
In fact, you may be even happy that it happened. :]
just accepting something happened.
In terms of accepting, forgetting is not the key.
If you accept everything that had happened,
remembering back-thens' will be easy for you.
One day you'll find yourself far from the crash site
but when you look back, it won't hurt that much.
In fact, you may be even happy that it happened. :]
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Understand her.
In order to understand her now,
you must learn about her past
and understand that first because her past is what made her who she is now,
maybe she’s been hurt so much it’s hard for her to trust
so she puts these walls up around her and barricades her heart,
she’s afraid that just maybe that if she opens up again
that she will end up hurt again and she doesn’t want to go through that phase again. With that being said you have to listen to what she says,
get to know what her mind is like,
her thoughts are a representation of her feelings.
You have to get to know her for who she is and always be honest with her so you can slowly build this trusting relationship with her.
Don’t be the guy that doesn’t understand his girlfriend and the way she acts, because you never took the time to learn and understand her past, you know?
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
Don’t let people tell you who to love and who not to love.
When you love someone and you truly feel it in your heart
then let them know, know that regardless of what people say your feelings
for that one special person won’t ever change because what you feel is “real”
and you know in your mind that person is the one you want to be with.
Remember a relationship is between two people and not three.
If they make you happy with everything they do
and they are able to make you smile like no other person can make you smile
then cherish them and let them know how special they are to you,
Let them know that they are loved by being there for the when they need you to be.
Instead of being the reason they are sad, be the reason they smile and make them happy. Life’s to short to listen to what other people say, so like I said if what you feel in your heart is genuine love for that special someone then go with it and let them know regardless of what other people may think or say. The decision of who you choose to love is fully up to you and no one else, remember that. ♥
then let them know, know that regardless of what people say your feelings
for that one special person won’t ever change because what you feel is “real”
and you know in your mind that person is the one you want to be with.
Remember a relationship is between two people and not three.
If they make you happy with everything they do
and they are able to make you smile like no other person can make you smile
then cherish them and let them know how special they are to you,
Let them know that they are loved by being there for the when they need you to be.
Instead of being the reason they are sad, be the reason they smile and make them happy. Life’s to short to listen to what other people say, so like I said if what you feel in your heart is genuine love for that special someone then go with it and let them know regardless of what other people may think or say. The decision of who you choose to love is fully up to you and no one else, remember that. ♥
Friday, January 4, 2013
WANNA GIVE UP
Give up blaming others for my troubles.
Give up trying to live up to the expectations of others.
Give up the ‘easy street’ mentality.
Give up making promises i can’t keep.
Give up letting my thoughts and feelings bottle up inside.
Give up avoiding change.
Give up your sense of entitlement.
Give up foolish habits that you know are foolish.
Give up relationships with people who bring you down.
Give up worrying about what others think of you.
Give up trying to control everything.
Give up doing the same thing over and over again.
Give up persistent multi-tasking. .
Give up thinking others are luckier than me.
Give up filling every waking moment with commitments and activities.
Give up making emotional decisions.
Give up doing the wrong things just because you can get away with it.
Give up focusing on what i don’t want to happen.
Give up taking myself so seriously.
Give up thinking about the things i d don't have.
Give up doubting others.
Give up trying to fit in.
Give up trying to be different for the sake of being different.
Give up trying to avoid risk.
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
will you wish for more if you have this?
A boy who calls almost every minute just to say he loves you.
A boy who desperately hugs you every time you fight,
A boy who holds your hands and clasps it tightly but gently.
Stares at you as if you’re the only woman around.
Sings you songs even if he doesn’t have a good voice.
Pulls you when it rains just to dance with you.
Lastly, a boy who pulls you back in his arms when you’re hurt.
Even after you pushed him away and broke his heart. ♥
A boy who desperately hugs you every time you fight,
A boy who holds your hands and clasps it tightly but gently.
Stares at you as if you’re the only woman around.
Sings you songs even if he doesn’t have a good voice.
Pulls you when it rains just to dance with you.
Lastly, a boy who pulls you back in his arms when you’re hurt.
Even after you pushed him away and broke his heart. ♥
Saturday, December 15, 2012
Friday, September 14, 2012
do you know why relationships are harder nowadays???
its because...
conversation became texting...
arguments became phone calls..
feeling became subliminal message online...
sex became easy..
the word "love" gets used out of context...
insecurities have became your way of thinking...
getting jealous became a habit...
trust has been lost...
cheating became an accident...
leaving became the only option...
and
being hurt became natural...
conversation became texting...
arguments became phone calls..
feeling became subliminal message online...
sex became easy..
the word "love" gets used out of context...
insecurities have became your way of thinking...
getting jealous became a habit...
trust has been lost...
cheating became an accident...
leaving became the only option...
and
being hurt became natural...
Saturday, August 11, 2012
PERFECT GUYS DON'T EXIST
he's not perfect. i not either.
and the two of us will never be perfect
but if he can me laugh at least once
causes me to think twice.
and if he admits for being human and making mistakes
i'll hold on and i'll give him the most i can.
he isn't going to quote me poetry
he's not thinking about me every moment
but he could give me apart of him that he knows i would break.
i wont hurt him
i wont change him
and i wont expect for more that he can give.
i wont analyze...
i smile when he makes me happy.
i yell when he makes me mad.
and i miss him when he's not there.
i love hard when there is love to be had.
because perfect guys don't exist.
BUT THERE'S ALWAYS ONE GUYS WHO IS PERFECT FOR ME. =)
and the two of us will never be perfect
but if he can me laugh at least once
causes me to think twice.
and if he admits for being human and making mistakes
i'll hold on and i'll give him the most i can.
he isn't going to quote me poetry
he's not thinking about me every moment
but he could give me apart of him that he knows i would break.
i wont hurt him
i wont change him
and i wont expect for more that he can give.
i wont analyze...
i smile when he makes me happy.
i yell when he makes me mad.
and i miss him when he's not there.
i love hard when there is love to be had.
because perfect guys don't exist.
BUT THERE'S ALWAYS ONE GUYS WHO IS PERFECT FOR ME. =)
Monday, July 2, 2012
real men can't be stolen
stop breaking my heart stop lying!!!
tell a lie once and your truths will be questionable
trust means everything,but once its broken SORRY means nothing
they say you dont know what you've got until its gone
but the truth...
you knew exactly what you had; you just thought you'd never lose it
its piercing me inside...
Sunday, May 6, 2012
Saturday, April 14, 2012
everythings gonna be alright!
Thank you for loving me
For being my eyes
When I couldn't see
For parting my lips
When I couldn't breathe
Thank you for loving me
cheezzzyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =D
For being my eyes
When I couldn't see
For parting my lips
When I couldn't breathe
Thank you for loving me
cheezzzyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =D
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Thoughts on cheating...
Why cheat on someone? Why cheat on someone who decided to commit to you?,
Why cheat on someone who gave up time with their friends and family just to spend time with you?.
They decided to settle for you and gave all of their heart to you,
so why put someone who loves you with everything they have through this pain?
Cheating should never be an option in a relationship, if the relationship gets boring then talk it out with one another and if you can’t save the relationship then end it rather then “Cheat”.
Remain loyal and faithful to the person you are with because how would you feel if someone who you gave your all to turned around and cheated on you?,
Some people say “Shit happens” when they cheat,
but honestly that’s not how it works because it takes two people to cheat,
it “Happened” because you let it happen, you let this situation take place.
You know in your mind that it would hurt the other person if you cheated so you have the choice to say yes or no.
So all I have to say is don’t risk this relationship and make a stupid mistake.
Just be loyal and faithful to the person you are with, you know?
HAYS SANA KAYANAN KO PA MGA NAN-AABOT NA MGA NEGATIVE INFORMATION HA AKON YANA =)
one thing for sure i dont trust him 100% =)
gasgas na kc ;)
Sunday, April 1, 2012
It's hard for her to trust.
She has talked to guys who have played with her emotions and lead her on,
she’s trusted only to have them go and abuse the trust that she gave them,
she’s opened up and gotten close to a guy only to have him get bored and leave when he felt like it,
to him she was merely an option and it hurt her because she had invested so much time and effort into getting to know this guy,
she developed feelings, but in the end that kindness and trust led her to be taken advantage of.
This guy said one thing to make her believe he was interested which made her feel like she could finally let down the walls around her heart,
but little did she know he was merely playing her for a fool and that his intentions weren’t honest.
With that being said, guys when she trusts you and opens up to you then don’t take advantage of that because you don’t even know how hard it was for her to finally let her barriers down and trust you. ♥
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she’s trusted only to have them go and abuse the trust that she gave them,
she’s opened up and gotten close to a guy only to have him get bored and leave when he felt like it,
to him she was merely an option and it hurt her because she had invested so much time and effort into getting to know this guy,
she developed feelings, but in the end that kindness and trust led her to be taken advantage of.
This guy said one thing to make her believe he was interested which made her feel like she could finally let down the walls around her heart,
but little did she know he was merely playing her for a fool and that his intentions weren’t honest.
With that being said, guys when she trusts you and opens up to you then don’t take advantage of that because you don’t even know how hard it was for her to finally let her barriers down and trust you. ♥
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never insult your girl no matter how mad you are
Kung magsasalita ka ng mga masasakit sa akin, siguraduhin mong mabuti at wala kang tinatagong kasamaan.
why do you make me so pathetic
it is possible for two people to fall in love all over again, even when there’s been a lifetime of disappointment between them
-pangarap-
maraming pilipino ang nag-aabroad
para tuparin ang pangarap
para makapag-ipon
para sa pamilya
para sa mahal sa buhay...
pero ito rin ang nagiging sanhi sa pagkasira ng relasyun...
tunghayan ang bago yugto ng akin buhay...
sa pangalawang pagkakataon ako'y nasa
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ULI
may takot, dahil sa trauma dinulot
pero ipinapaubaya ko na ang lahat sa dyos...
so help me god ;)
para tuparin ang pangarap
para makapag-ipon
para sa pamilya
para sa mahal sa buhay...
pero ito rin ang nagiging sanhi sa pagkasira ng relasyun...
tunghayan ang bago yugto ng akin buhay...
sa pangalawang pagkakataon ako'y nasa
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ULI
may takot, dahil sa trauma dinulot
pero ipinapaubaya ko na ang lahat sa dyos...
so help me god ;)
Friday, March 9, 2012
miss you
march 08,2012
why do we miss someone???
is it because he is not physically beside you
or because the thing you usually do your daily routine change.
why do we miss someone???
is it because he is not physically beside you
or because the thing you usually do your daily routine change.
Monday, January 23, 2012
its time to stop holding on to the people we've lost and start turning to what i have right now
losing someone doesn't hurt you the most. seeing someone you love, loves someone else's hurt you the most.
its hard to forget someone whom youve imagined spending life forever with.but i need to let go a special person i used to keep,mainly because he also
need to find that someone i cant be anymore.
i have to move forward, all i can do is to accept that it happend learn from it and move on!
i have let go of the things that can no longer be fixed because if i pushed to try to put them back,things will only get worst. holding on is brave but
sometimes moving-on makes you even tougher
moving on isn't easy...but many people have done it, so i know i can do it
its hard to forget someone whom youve imagined spending life forever with.but i need to let go a special person i used to keep,mainly because he also
need to find that someone i cant be anymore.
i have to move forward, all i can do is to accept that it happend learn from it and move on!
i have let go of the things that can no longer be fixed because if i pushed to try to put them back,things will only get worst. holding on is brave but
sometimes moving-on makes you even tougher
moving on isn't easy...but many people have done it, so i know i can do it
Friday, January 20, 2012
sad....
is this the side effect of giving too much
and receiving too little? =(
or
its just that im not contented???
and receiving too little? =(
or
its just that im not contented???
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Saturday, December 24, 2011
its christmas
happy birthday jesus!
I'm looking forward
celebrating xmas on year 2013 ;)
take note 2013!
asking why???
because i know it would be different.
extraordinary...
exciting...
I'm looking forward
celebrating xmas on year 2013 ;)
take note 2013!
asking why???
because i know it would be different.
extraordinary...
exciting...
Friday, December 16, 2011
love the new pick line!!! hehehe
from bubble gags
"boy pick-up"
BOZING KA BA?
BAKIT?
KASI I LOVE YOU MWAH MWAH TSUP TSUP.
no sense?
hehe wala lang!!! ;)
"boy pick-up"
BOZING KA BA?
BAKIT?
KASI I LOVE YOU MWAH MWAH TSUP TSUP.
no sense?
hehe wala lang!!! ;)
Monday, November 28, 2011
WIFE... MATERIAL
Sino ba naman ang di nangarap na maging isang may-bahay? Lahat naman ng mga babae gusto maging wifey di ba?
Para sa akin, dalawang klase lang ng babae ang pwedeng maging isang WIFE MATERIAL..
Bawat lalaki kahit pa anong lahi, iba-iba ang pamantayang hinahanap sa pagkakaroon ng isang katuwang sa buhay.
May mga lalaking ang gusto ay palabang babae. May disposisyon sa sarili. Matapang, matatag at prangka. The more na mas independent mas may plus points. Karamihan ng mga lalaking naghahanap ng ganitong attitude sa mga babae ay yung mga lalaking “made na” meaning wala ng insecurities sa sarili. Malawak na ang pang-unawa at higit sa lahat naniniwala sa salitang men and women are born equal.. sila rin yung mga lalaking “relax na”, mas laid back kumbaga.
Meron namang mga lalaki na ang gusto, mahinhin. Totally opposite ng nabanggit ko sa taas, at ang mga lalaking karamihan na ganito ang gusto, well opposite din po sya ng nabanggit ko sa taas. Sila yung kulang pa sa experiences ng buhay. Hilaw at immature most of the time.. They’re the ones who would love to take control. At pwede lamang nilang gawin ‘yun sa mga taong kaya nilang …well sorry to say .. rendahan o kontrolin ng buong buo.
Actually walang masama sa parehong classification na nabanggit. Opposites attract, minsan it works, minsan hindi. Depende pa rin sa pagpili. Karamihan sa mga Pilipinong lalaki lalo na ‘yung mga taong lumaki sa probinsya o sa mas conservative na up bringing, mas pipiliin ang “wife material” na isang mahinhin, tahimik at mabait. Sadly ito rin ang klase ng wifey na nagiging insecure at selfish in the end..Nahawa na sa asawa…For sure walang pipili ng babaing matapang, palaban at prangka. Marami ng beses kong napatunayan ito. Ganunpaman, sabi nga kung ukol talagang bubukol at sa bandang huli kayo pa rin.
Maraming nagkakahiwalay na mag-asawa dala na rin ng pagkakaiba ng pag-uugali, views, culture, tradisyon o di kaya naman ay ang ‘di pagkakaroon ng pagkakataon na makilala ang isa’t-isa. Dito pumapasok ang advantage ng pagkakaroon ng pagiging HINDI palabang asawa. Matiisin kasi ang mga ganitong babae. Dahil kung ang napakasalan mo ay palaban, hindi ka na sisikatan ng araw, sakaling humanap ng iba ang lalaki..at yan ay isang napakalaking disadvantage . At mas mahirap “palitan” ang isang babaeng PALABAN na wifey, ‘di dahil takot ang lalaki, kundi dahil ang pagiging palaban ng isang babae ay sapat ng kaalaman para sa lalaki na, di ko ‘to kaya!
Battle of the sexes, ika nga.
Para sa akin, dalawang klase lang ng babae ang pwedeng maging isang WIFE MATERIAL..
Bawat lalaki kahit pa anong lahi, iba-iba ang pamantayang hinahanap sa pagkakaroon ng isang katuwang sa buhay.
May mga lalaking ang gusto ay palabang babae. May disposisyon sa sarili. Matapang, matatag at prangka. The more na mas independent mas may plus points. Karamihan ng mga lalaking naghahanap ng ganitong attitude sa mga babae ay yung mga lalaking “made na” meaning wala ng insecurities sa sarili. Malawak na ang pang-unawa at higit sa lahat naniniwala sa salitang men and women are born equal.. sila rin yung mga lalaking “relax na”, mas laid back kumbaga.
Meron namang mga lalaki na ang gusto, mahinhin. Totally opposite ng nabanggit ko sa taas, at ang mga lalaking karamihan na ganito ang gusto, well opposite din po sya ng nabanggit ko sa taas. Sila yung kulang pa sa experiences ng buhay. Hilaw at immature most of the time.. They’re the ones who would love to take control. At pwede lamang nilang gawin ‘yun sa mga taong kaya nilang …well sorry to say .. rendahan o kontrolin ng buong buo.
Actually walang masama sa parehong classification na nabanggit. Opposites attract, minsan it works, minsan hindi. Depende pa rin sa pagpili. Karamihan sa mga Pilipinong lalaki lalo na ‘yung mga taong lumaki sa probinsya o sa mas conservative na up bringing, mas pipiliin ang “wife material” na isang mahinhin, tahimik at mabait. Sadly ito rin ang klase ng wifey na nagiging insecure at selfish in the end..Nahawa na sa asawa…For sure walang pipili ng babaing matapang, palaban at prangka. Marami ng beses kong napatunayan ito. Ganunpaman, sabi nga kung ukol talagang bubukol at sa bandang huli kayo pa rin.
Maraming nagkakahiwalay na mag-asawa dala na rin ng pagkakaiba ng pag-uugali, views, culture, tradisyon o di kaya naman ay ang ‘di pagkakaroon ng pagkakataon na makilala ang isa’t-isa. Dito pumapasok ang advantage ng pagkakaroon ng pagiging HINDI palabang asawa. Matiisin kasi ang mga ganitong babae. Dahil kung ang napakasalan mo ay palaban, hindi ka na sisikatan ng araw, sakaling humanap ng iba ang lalaki..at yan ay isang napakalaking disadvantage . At mas mahirap “palitan” ang isang babaeng PALABAN na wifey, ‘di dahil takot ang lalaki, kundi dahil ang pagiging palaban ng isang babae ay sapat ng kaalaman para sa lalaki na, di ko ‘to kaya!
Battle of the sexes, ika nga.
ANG MGA BABAE.....
1. Moody: Inborn na sa mga babae to. Kung badtrip kami, wag niyo nang sasabayan.
2. Pag sinabi naming nagtatampo kami, lambing lang katapat: Yung salitang tampo way lang namin yun para sabihing lambingin niyo kami. Konting I love you niyo lang, okay na kami.
3. Gusto namin yung palagi kaming kino-compliment: Pag may bago sa itsura namin, gusto naming mapansin niyo. Kasi nakakataas ng self-confidence namin yun.
4. Pag napansin niyong naging sersyoso yung mga text namin, may mali: Kapag ganun, may nagawa kayong di namin nagustuhan. Kaya be alert. Kapag sinabe naming wala, meron talaga. Nahihiya lang kami. Kaya pilitin niyo kaming sabihin sa inyo. At pagtapos naming masabi, konting lambing lang. Back to normal na ulit.
5. Selosa kami: Kaya iwasan niyong makipag harutan sa ibang girls. Lalo na sa harapan namin. Pero may ibang babae na tahimik lang kung mag-selos. Inoobserabahan lang kayo. Pero kapag napuno, simula na ng away.
6. Kaming mga babae, normal lang ang ma-attract sa mga gwapo: Hanggang tingin lang kami. Kasi hindi naman na namin makikita ulit. Ma-attract man kami sa 1M lalaki, ang puso namin ay para lang sa tunay naming mahal. Ganun din naman kayong mga lalaki. Kapag nakakita ng maganda at sexy. Magaling lang kayong magtago.
7. Kaming mga babae, pinagmamalaki namin yung mga mahal namin ng hindi nila nalalaman: Katulad nalang sa mga GM (Group Message), Facebook at TUMBLR.
8. Ayaw namin sa mga manliligaw na nagmamadali: Yung tipo ng mga lalaking laging nagtatanong kung kailan ba namin sila sasagutin. Naiirita kami. Kaya dapat maging matiyaga kayo kasi dun namin nalalaman kung sino talaga kayo.
9. Kapag malungkot o tahimik kami, gusto namin ng yakap galing sa inyo: Kasi iba yung pakiramdam kapag hawak niyo na kami. Gumagaan yung pakiramdam namin. :">
10. Gustong gusto namin yung mga lalaking malaki ang respeto samin: Yung tipong pag ayaw namin magpa-kiss, hindi niyo gagawin. Instead, lalambingin ka na lang sa ibang paraan. Ang pinaka gusto naming kiss, kiss on the forehead. It symbolizes, respect.
11. Ang nagpapa-turn on samin ay yung lalaking protective: Yung kapag kasama namin kayo, feeling namin safe na safe kami. Walang mangyayaring masama at hindi kami ilalagay sa panganib.
12. Ayaw namin sa lalaking hanggang text lang: Kung mahal niyo talaga kami, patunayan niyo sa personal. Wag yung sa text lang kayo magaling. Magpaka-lalaki kayo!
13. Sobra kaming natutuwa sa mga lalaking ma-effort: Yung kahit walang special day, feel mo eh special ang araw araw niyo. Kasi sobrang nakakatuwa kapag ang lalaki laging nagpuput in ng effort. Feeling naming babae eh, isa kaming prinsesa.
14. Ang pangarap naming mga babae yung ipapakilala kami ng mga lalaki sa kanilang mga barkada at lalo na sakanilang pamilya: Feeling namin kami na yung pinaka maswerteng babae sa mundo. Kasi iilan lang ang lalaking naglalakas loob ipakilala kami sa parents at barkada nila. Yung iba kasi nahihiya. At feeling din nmin angkin na angkin na namin ang isang lalaki dahil nakilala na namin ang mga taong bumubuo sa buhay niya. :)
15. Magaling kaming mag-pretend: Kapag nasasaktan kami, nagpapaka-manhind kami. Kapag may nakitang di maganda, nagbubulagbulagan kami. Kapag may narinig na mali, nagbibingibingihan kami. Pero kapag mag-isa nalang kami, dun kami naglalabas ng sakit. Dun kami umiiyak. Kaya ang pangarap naming lalaki is yung sensitive enough sa mga nararamdaman namin. Yung kayang magtanong hanggang sa umamin kami.
Thursday, November 10, 2011
hey!
hello fellow blogger!!!
its been a while...
im not that busy...
just dont know the topic i should post or i should share...
but one thing for sure i hate a group of people right now.
just discover something on facebook specifically (picture)
i dont know the essence of those pic until when i read the caption on it.
i dont hate them personally i just hate why make that event sooooo important!!!
i thought it was just an ordinary.
but friends celebrated it extraordinarily!
i never thought such event (binigyan nila ng halaga at importansya)
shyeeettt!!!
who cares anyway!
its been a while...
im not that busy...
just dont know the topic i should post or i should share...
but one thing for sure i hate a group of people right now.
just discover something on facebook specifically (picture)
i dont know the essence of those pic until when i read the caption on it.
i dont hate them personally i just hate why make that event sooooo important!!!
i thought it was just an ordinary.
but friends celebrated it extraordinarily!
i never thought such event (binigyan nila ng halaga at importansya)
shyeeettt!!!
who cares anyway!
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
NATAL DAY! (sept 27)
i woke up with warak2x day
because i know i can't rely on people to make me feel this day so special...
so in just a simple way i celebrate it by my own...
about 4:30pm i went first to church before going school.
talk to PAPA GOD crying the whole time =(
and i don't know why im crying in-front the Eucharist.
and i wish for something not for myself but for my family specially my mom.
then light a candle then ask for help for my exam (naa ko sched exam during my bday)
then pag-abot school god really answer my prayer!!! yehey god is god!!!
in a way he made me smile ;)
my day ended up with NGANGA! hehehe but its ok im used to it NGANGA!!! ;)
because i know i can't rely on people to make me feel this day so special...
so in just a simple way i celebrate it by my own...
about 4:30pm i went first to church before going school.
talk to PAPA GOD crying the whole time =(
and i don't know why im crying in-front the Eucharist.
and i wish for something not for myself but for my family specially my mom.
then light a candle then ask for help for my exam (naa ko sched exam during my bday)
then pag-abot school god really answer my prayer!!! yehey god is god!!!
in a way he made me smile ;)
my day ended up with NGANGA! hehehe but its ok im used to it NGANGA!!! ;)
Thursday, September 15, 2011
haggard look

taken last sept 15,2011
i arrived late at school. good thing because our instructor was busy preparing for our foundation day ;)
just when i open the door everybody was so shock nak look!!!
and im not aware with my looks.
they keep on teasing me
"tobz tikang ka gad agway"
"anu tobz kulang collection"
"tobz mahangin sa labas?"
i didn't even notice they were taking pictures.
when i got home yung mga gago they upload my pixs! just take a look!
they put a caption "suklay nasaan ka"
just when i found out i didnt even comb my hair before leaving the house hahaha
was just so lazy this day.
i dont feel like doing anything
just want to lay in my bed sleep.
because i was so exhausted tired and stress!!!
Friday, September 2, 2011
when you just wanna die...
have you ever think to commit suicide?
the most ultimate escape of your problems.
i wanted to go to sleep and never wake-up.
but it never happen...
i wanted to "end it all"
like hanging myself,but too much trouble buying rope hehe.
i love pain actually im used to live with pain but stabbing my chest or slitting my wrist things which i could not do. ewww!
i even fantasized wresting a gun from my classmate, point the gun on my head and pull the trigger. but i know he could pin me on the ground before i could pull the gun out.
then i hit upon a perfect method to overdose myself.
but what terrifies me what lies after my death.
im not afraid to go to hell.
what im afraid of when i meet god and he ask me.
"why did you take your life? i'm so disappointed in you"
GOD IF YOU REALLY LOVE ME, KILL ME RIGHT NOW!!!
the most ultimate escape of your problems.
i wanted to go to sleep and never wake-up.
but it never happen...
i wanted to "end it all"
like hanging myself,but too much trouble buying rope hehe.
i love pain actually im used to live with pain but stabbing my chest or slitting my wrist things which i could not do. ewww!
i even fantasized wresting a gun from my classmate, point the gun on my head and pull the trigger. but i know he could pin me on the ground before i could pull the gun out.
then i hit upon a perfect method to overdose myself.
but what terrifies me what lies after my death.
im not afraid to go to hell.
what im afraid of when i meet god and he ask me.
"why did you take your life? i'm so disappointed in you"
GOD IF YOU REALLY LOVE ME, KILL ME RIGHT NOW!!!
Thursday, September 1, 2011
you've change
Things changed...
People changed...
you change...
we used to talk for hours
and now I'm lucky to talk to you for few minutes a day.
you used to want to be with me
and now you make it seems like you're always too busy.
i remember the jokes,smile,laugh we shared.
and i doubt you remember any of that.
;)
People changed...
you change...
we used to talk for hours
and now I'm lucky to talk to you for few minutes a day.
you used to want to be with me
and now you make it seems like you're always too busy.
i remember the jokes,smile,laugh we shared.
and i doubt you remember any of that.
;)
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Many people think I’m strong because of the struggles I’ve been, the problems I’ve encountered, the pain I’ve felt. But they’re wrong ’cause inside me is a weak heart, but behind it… is a strong and big GOD. HE is bigger than the greatest need of your heart... greater than anything you can imagine.
ako ay ako
simple akong tao...
mamabaw kaligayahan ko...
sa pagkain di ako mapili
chubby at safari kuntento na ako
lalo pa sa mik2 at fishbal sa kanto
mahilig ako tumawa...
mahilig din ako magpatawa...
minsan masasabi mo para akong baliw...
hindi ako mabilis masaktan
kaya naman hindi ako mabilis magalit.
kung magalit man ako mabilis ako makalimot
ngunit meh mga bagay na malalim ang epekto,
kahit anong gawin mu di ka makalimot…
sa kaibigan hindi ako mapili
maybarkada ako addict
may barkada ako sosyal
maybarkadang kalog
may barkada ako nerd
may barkada ako matatalino at matino
may barkada ako saksakan sa kabobohan
ibat ibang klase man kaibigan ko nanatili ako ay ako...
sa emosyon di mo ako mababasa...
kung akoy galit nakatawa parin...
kung ako umaapoy sa galit tahimik lang
ehhh pano kung ako'y broken hearted???
wala lang ;)
mamabaw kaligayahan ko...
sa pagkain di ako mapili
chubby at safari kuntento na ako
lalo pa sa mik2 at fishbal sa kanto
mahilig ako tumawa...
mahilig din ako magpatawa...
minsan masasabi mo para akong baliw...
hindi ako mabilis masaktan
kaya naman hindi ako mabilis magalit.
kung magalit man ako mabilis ako makalimot
ngunit meh mga bagay na malalim ang epekto,
kahit anong gawin mu di ka makalimot…
sa kaibigan hindi ako mapili
maybarkada ako addict
may barkada ako sosyal
maybarkadang kalog
may barkada ako nerd
may barkada ako matatalino at matino
may barkada ako saksakan sa kabobohan
ibat ibang klase man kaibigan ko nanatili ako ay ako...
sa emosyon di mo ako mababasa...
kung akoy galit nakatawa parin...
kung ako umaapoy sa galit tahimik lang
ehhh pano kung ako'y broken hearted???
wala lang ;)
Thursday, August 25, 2011
THERE'S NO OTHER PATH BUT TO BECOME A LAWYER IKA NGA "maghintay ka lamang"
GETTING HOOKED TO THIS SONG!!!
Kung hindi ngayon
Ang panahon
Na para sa iyo
Huwag maiinip
Dahil ganyan
Ang buhay sa mundo
Huwag mawawalan ng pag-asa
Darating din ang ligaya
Ang isipin mo'y may bukas pa
Na mayroong saya
Kabigua'y hindi hadlang upang tumakas ka
Huwag kang iiwas 'pag nabibigo
Dapat na lumaban ka
Ang kailangan mo'y tibay ng loob
Kung mayrong pagsubok man
Ang liwanag ay 'di magtatagal
At muling mamasdan
Ikot ng mundo ay hindi laging pighati't kasawian
Ang pangarap mo ay makakamtan
Basta't maghintay ka lamang
I KNOW SOMEDAY I WOULD BECOME SOMEONE THAT I WOULD BE PROUD OF...
NOT ONLY ME BUT ALSO MY FAMILY...
JUST WAIT LYNLYN..JUST WAIT...
IKA NGA "ANG PANGARAP MO AY MAKAKAMTAN BASTA'T MAGHINTAY KA LAMANG"
THERE'S NO OTHER PATH FOR ME BUT TO BECOME A LAWYER
Kung hindi ngayon
Ang panahon
Na para sa iyo
Huwag maiinip
Dahil ganyan
Ang buhay sa mundo
Huwag mawawalan ng pag-asa
Darating din ang ligaya
Ang isipin mo'y may bukas pa
Na mayroong saya
Kabigua'y hindi hadlang upang tumakas ka
Huwag kang iiwas 'pag nabibigo
Dapat na lumaban ka
Ang kailangan mo'y tibay ng loob
Kung mayrong pagsubok man
Ang liwanag ay 'di magtatagal
At muling mamasdan
Ikot ng mundo ay hindi laging pighati't kasawian
Ang pangarap mo ay makakamtan
Basta't maghintay ka lamang
I KNOW SOMEDAY I WOULD BECOME SOMEONE THAT I WOULD BE PROUD OF...
NOT ONLY ME BUT ALSO MY FAMILY...
JUST WAIT LYNLYN..JUST WAIT...
IKA NGA "ANG PANGARAP MO AY MAKAKAMTAN BASTA'T MAGHINTAY KA LAMANG"
THERE'S NO OTHER PATH FOR ME BUT TO BECOME A LAWYER
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
aug 18,2011 1:21am
damn!!! emo mode again!!!
duh...
reading a book title "how to mend a broken heart!"
shyettt!!!
my sistah bought this book!
duh...
reading a book title "how to mend a broken heart!"
shyettt!!!
my sistah bought this book!
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